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Looking for family, searching for tribe.
12.20.07 (1:46 pm)   [edit]

 

 

FAMILY

-New Model Army, 1987

 

Joey puts her make-up on really well

She looks cool in the flashing lights

And all the boys gossip about the shape of her legs

On these muddled up and drunken nights

And if it's all got to end up between the sheets

She can coo like a virgin dove

But really she just doesn't want to be alone

And if you want you can call that love

 

M6 southbound roadside cafe on a wild wet and windy night

There's a kid in a sleeping bag huddled in a corner, trying to beg a light

He's got mum and dad tattooed on his arm

From when he thought that that would make it alright

He's got hope and fear on his young boy's face

Another innocent taken to flight, saying

 

Give me some place that I can go

Where I don't have to justify myself

Swimming out alone against this tide

Looking for family searching for tribe

 

They said go, get out, we've got our own lives to lead

Now that water is thicker than blood

And every house is divided into single flats

With their very own little welcome rug

The shopping mall it is teeming with life

Fighting for the goodies on the shelf

But there's those funny old people on the escalators

Talking to themselves, saying

 

Give me some place that I can go

Where I don't have to justify myself

Swimming out alone against this tide

Looking for family searching for tribe

 

Well I survive on my own for a while or so

Upon a whim or a bottle of wine

Just trying to make sense of these new surroundings

I only changed my name a couple of times

Please take me back Joey, I'm really sorry

Can we try to make a happy home?

But she's gone with someone else and they're starting a family

Trying for a clan of their own, so

 

Give me some place that I can go

Where I don't have to justify myself

Swimming out alone against this tide

Looking for family looking for tribe

 


posted by: commontater (reply)
post date: 12.29.07 (11:11 pm)

Wow! What a great read! What a great refrain,
"Give me some place that I can go

Where I don't have to justify myself

Swimming out alone against this tide

Looking for family looking for tribe."

Just thought I'd drop by while I was able to get in on Tblog. I'm pretty fed up with it, so I'll be stopping in when I can, but not regularly. Hope you're all having a great Holiday Season, Lovely Lindy..:) Please send my greetings to Devon and the angels, too!

PuC



posted by: lindy (reply)
post date: 12.30.07 (5:41 am)

Reply to: commontater

It's so nice to see you here again, PuC. :) Yes, this song is beyond meaningful for me, for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider - my opinion, of course.

Hope you and yours are staying safe and warm over the holiday.





posted by: akelso (reply)
post date: 01.09.08 (6:47 pm)

Oh Lindy. "Looking for family looking for tribe," and feeling so, so alone.

I do hope things are looking up for you! Happy New Years.



posted by: lindy (reply)
post date: 01.10.08 (3:33 pm)

Reply to: akelso

Ah, Andrea. So good to see you. Things are looking up for me, thank you. And I do hope the same can be said for you, madam. :)





posted by: mattblack (reply)
post date: 01.12.08 (5:58 am)

I read the following quote in a magazine article way back sometime in the '70s, and it's stuck with me all these years:

"Loneliness isn't a longing for company; it's a longing for *kind*."

I think all of us who identify as "outsiders" have had the sensation of being surrounded by people with whom we have little to nothing in common.

"Looking for family looking for tribe."

Yep.



posted by: akelso (reply)
post date: 01.17.08 (9:50 am)

Ditto, Lindy, Ditto!! - Andrea

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